“IF YOU CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK AT THINGS THE THINGS YOU LOOK AT CHANGES”

Posted on Posted in Blog, Mind & Meaning, Miscellaneous & Masterpieces

Good Morning my dear reader…

I hope you are having good time, if not then read further, you will be never ever feel sorry or sad again…

Today, I have something AWESOME and AMAZING for you that will really change many things in your life.

Please lend me some of your time for you…

Life is all about how we look at things, it’s all about our ATTITUTE towards it…

Truly quoted by, Charles Swindoll…

“Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it”

Life is just about our perspective towards it…

 

Let me start it with a simple example…

Imagine you have a glass filled up with 50% of liquid then you have two different perspectives… Either you can be happy that it is half filled, or you can keep complaining and repenting about it’s emptiness…

 

Same is with life… Life has both the sides, choice is always yours either to be happy or keep complaining.

“There are only two ways to live your life:-

  1. Though nothing is a miracle or,
  2. Though EVERYTHING IS A MIRACLE.” -ALBERT EINSTEIN

 

Choice is always yours, what you choose will define how you will be…

Let me give you another example…

Once their was an atheist (Nastik- A person lacking belief in the existence of god). He had inscribed a quote in front of his house,

“ GOD IS NOWHERE ”

But once his small kid read the same as…

“GOD IS NOW HERE”

Big difference, isn’t it…???

Same is with life, what matters most is how we look at things, it is the only factor which influences our happiness…

 

“If  you change the way you look at things, the things you look at changes”

-Wayne Dyer

If you are still not convinced with what I’m trying to covey, then please let me share a story with you which I heard once…

A young woman was once sitting at her dining table, worried about taxes to be paid, housework to be done and to top of it all, her family was coming over for thanksgiving the next day. She was not feeling very thankful at that time.

 

As she turned around, she saw her young daughter scribbling something furiously into her notebook.

The mother asked her what was she doing…???

“My teacher asked us to write a paragraph on ‘NEGATIVE-THANKS-GIVING’ for homework today.”

Said the daughter and continued…

“She asked us to write down things that we are thankful for, things that make us feel not so good in the beginning, but turn out to be good after all.”

The mother peeped into the notebook of her daughter, look what she had written…

  • “I’m thankful for final exams, because that means school is almost over.”
  • “I’m thankful for bad-tasting medicine, because it helps me to feel better.”
  • “I’m thankful for waking up to alarm clocks, because it means that I’m still alive…”

Then the mother realized that she had lots and lots of things to be thankful for…!!!

She thought again…

  • She had to pay taxes but that meant she was fortunate enough to be employed.
  • She had lots of house work to do but that meant that she had her own house to live in..!
  • She had to cook food for her family for thanks-giving, but that meant she had a family with whom she could celebrate and rejoice…!!

 

Amazing, isn’t it…???

It’s just how we look at things changes our mood. It is the skill to be developed to look at POSITIVES when everyone around us is repenting for us. I know it’s hard, but you just need to change your attitude for it.

 

It’s all the game of our ATTITUDE and PERCEPTIONS…

Have you ever wondered why some people are always happy…??

Have you ever wondered why some people are always charming and smiling no matter how crucial situation they are facing…?

Is it possible the people who always seem happy never have any troubles or problems in to their lives…???

NO- they all have but the main difference is in their perception, how they look at things. They can see a CHALLENGE in every PROBLEM, They can see a OPPORTUNITY in every CALAMITY, They just see the BRIGHT side of everything. They can find out something POSITIVE when everything is going WORSE.

So, if you developed a positive attitude, then you will never ever feel down in your life.

 

Let me give you a simple exercise for today, that will help you to stay HAPPY forever…

Everyone including you and me reads newspaper, right..?

Do one thing whatever the news are, try to find out something positive from it.

For example:-

  1. If there is a robbery in a bank in your area, THANK GOD that you didn’t had your account in that bank.
  2. If there is a train accident nearby, THANK GOD that neither you nor any of your beloved ones was there on the train.
  3. If someone had divorce with his/her wife/husband then THANK GOD for giving you such an amazing, charming, jolly natured, gentle, loving and caring life partner. And for GOD’s SAKE don’t wait- just go to your life partner and tell him/her…

“I LOVE YOU, you have been so kind, thank you so much for being with me”                

Just thank your life partner for whatever is good in him/her. Because you never know if this is was the last time you are thanking him/her. Life has no tomorrows, it only has just ONE TIME and that’s ‘NOW’

  1. If you are looking at the page with death notices on it, THANK GOD from beneath of your HEART that you are ALIVE ( and not one from those death notices ) and reading this right now, THANK GOD for everything, because expressing GRATITUDE will make you feel happy, blessed and satisfied.

 

My dear, there are lots and lots of ways to THANK GOD, if you really want to…

Once if you cultivated the habit of seeing SOMETHING POSITIVE from EVERYTHING NEGATIVE, I BET you, that you will never feel sad or sorry again in your full lifetime…

 

“ATTITUDE is a LITTLE thing that makes a BIG DIFFERENCE”  

-Winston Churchill

 

Again reminding you,

“IF YOU CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK AT THINGS, THE THINGS YOU LOOK AT CHANGES.”

Again, please permit me to end here in my way…

Someone has truly said…

NAZAR KO BADLO TO NAZARE BADAL JATE HAI…

SOCH KO BADLO TO SITARE BADAL JATE HAI…

KASHTIYA BADAL NE KI ZARURAT NAHI HAI YAARO,

DISHA KO BADLO TO KINARE KHUD-B-KHUD BADAL JATE HAI…

 

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR LENDING ME YOUR TIME…

SEE YOU SOON, TILL THAT,

KEEP SMILING, BE INSPIRED, STAY BLESSED, STAY AWESOME, BE PHENOMENAL, STAY CALM, STAY HUMBLE STAY TUNED & KEEP INSPIRING…

TOGETHER WE CAN DO MORE…

Let’s together make this world a BETTER PLACE TO LIVE…

Want to succeed more?
Subscribe our newsletter and get our brand new book 'BE SUCCESSFUL' for free. Grab your success NOW!
We respect your privacy. We would never ever spam or expose your details. (GOD PROMISE)

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *